Weiley in profile, eyes closed, among bamboo in Bali
Weiley · Ubud, Bali
The Founder

Weiley

创始人

Born in Wuhan, raised in Cambridge, and now rooted in Bali — Weiley is the founder of Energy Alchemy, a wellness experience for women from achievement-driven cultures who sense that somewhere beneath the roles, the expectations, and the relentless performance — there is a version of themselves they have not yet been allowed to meet.

出生于武汉,成长于剑桥,如今在巴厘岛落地生根。
她是玉光炼心的创始人。
她深知那种感受——
在角色、期待与不停歇的付出之间,
隐约觉得,有一个真实的自己,
从来没有被允许出现过。
玉光炼心,就是为这样的女性而生的。

Weiley as a child in Beijing and as an adult in Cambridge — two worlds, one self
One

Between Two Worlds

两个世界之间

I was born in Wuhan, China, and moved to the UK when I was eight, growing up in Cambridge as an only child between two worlds. Like many children raised between Eastern expectations and Western individualism, I learnt early how to adapt myself depending on the room I was in.

At home, there was discipline, achievement, and emotional restraint. Outside, there was freedom, self-expression, and independence. Over time, I became incredibly good at shape-shifting between identities — the dutiful daughter, the high-performing executive, the capable mother, the socially effortless woman. Somewhere along the way, I lost touch with who I was underneath all the roles.

我出生在武汉,八岁随家人移居英国,在剑桥长大。
独生女。两个世界之间。
在家,是规矩、成绩与情绪上的克制。
在外,是自由、自我与独立。
我很早就学会了一件事:
进入不同的房间,成为不同的人。
时间长了,我成了一个极其擅长变换的人。
听话的女儿。高效的管理者。称职的母亲。游刃有余的女性。
只是,在所有这些角色的深处,
我渐渐不知道,自己究竟是谁了。

"I became so good at shape-shifting between identities that I lost touch with who I was underneath all the roles."

「我太擅长在各种身份之间切换,以至于忘记了在所有角色之下,我究竟是谁。」

Weiley facing a high-rise window overlooking the Kuala Lumpur skyline — turned away from view
Two

Success & Performance

成就与表演

I built a successful career in fintech across Southeast Asia — specialising in payment gateways in what was still a very male-dominated industry. I was often the only woman at my level in the room. I loved the ambition, the intensity, the financial freedom.

From the outside, it looked like I had everything together. Internally, I was constantly chasing the next milestone, the next validation, the next version of perfection that might finally make me feel enough. The performance of competence had become indistinguishable from life itself.

我在东南亚金融科技领域建立了成功的职业生涯——在一个高度男性主导的行业。从外部看,一切都很完整。而内心,我在不断追逐下一个里程碑,下一次认可,下一个也许终于能让我感到足够的完美版本。

Weiley pregnant, seated against a Bali mountain valley view
Three

Motherhood & Awakening

母性与觉醒

My introduction to alternative healing came unexpectedly through motherhood. When my firstborn was just three weeks old, he became critically ill with meningitis. During his recovery, I was introduced to craniosacral therapy and homeopathy through a midwife — and it completely shifted my understanding of healing and the body.

I had come from a family rooted in science and academic achievement. I was deeply sceptical of anything outside conventional medicine. But witnessing the changes in my son opened something in me that logic alone could not explain. That curiosity slowly led me toward Reiki, breathwork, meditation, energy work, hypnotherapy. I entered these worlds first for my children. Then, slowly, for myself.

我与另类疗愈的相遇,出乎意料地始于母性。我的第一个孩子在三周大时因脑膜炎病危。在他康复的过程中,通过助产士,我接触到了颅骶疗法与顺势疗法——它彻底改变了我对疗愈与身体的理解。那份好奇,慢慢引领我走向灵气、呼吸法、冥想与能量工作。我最初是为孩子进入这些世界的。然后,慢慢地,为了自己。

"Wellness is not about perfection. It is about remembrance."

「疗愈不是关于完美,而是关于记忆——回到你本来的样子。」

Weiley meditating on a river boulder in the Bali jungle
Four

Bali & Transformation

巴厘岛与蜕变

Moving to Bali became the beginning of a much deeper transformation. It felt like a place that gave me permission to slow down, soften, and question everything I had built my identity around. Why was I working so hard for things that still left me feeling empty? Why did success not automatically create peace?

The greatest gift came after stepping away from corporate life. For years I had tried unsuccessfully for another child. It was only after slowing down, healing emotionally, and learning how to feel safe in stillness that I conceived a third child naturally at 42. My youngest daughter was born at home in Bali, delivered naturally by her father. My two eldest are eighteen and sixteen now. My youngest is three. The gap between them tells you something about the decade I spent trying to heal what I didn't yet have language for. That experience profoundly changed my understanding of the intelligence of the female body.

My husband has been by my side since I was 23. He has witnessed every version of me throughout this journey — the ambitious one, the lost one, the one slowly finding her way back. His unwavering presence has taught me more about trust, softness, and unconditional love than any modality ever could.

移居巴厘岛,成为一场更深蜕变的开始。这里让我有了放慢脚步、软化、质疑一切的权利。在离开职场多年后,我在42岁自然怀孕了第三个孩子。我最小的女儿在巴厘岛家中出生,由她的父亲亲手迎接她来到这个世界。我的两个大孩子现在分别是十八岁和十六岁,最小的三岁。这之间的距离,诉说了我花了十年时间,试图疗愈那些我尚未找到语言表达的东西。那次经历深刻地改变了我对女性身体智慧的理解。

我的丈夫从我23岁起就陪伴在我身边。他见证了这段旅程中我的每一个版本——那个充满野心的我,那个迷失的我,那个慢慢找回自己的我。他坚定不移的陪伴,比任何疗愈方式都更深地教会了我信任、柔软与无条件的爱。

Weiley in blue dress
Five

The Birth of Energy Alchemy

玉光炼心的诞生

I see something shifting among modern Chinese women — especially younger women who are finally speaking openly about the emotional cost of silencing yourself for too long. About nervous system health, burnout, identity, and a desire not just for outward success, but for inner peace, authenticity, and genuine connection.

These are conversations previous generations were rarely allowed to have. I wanted to create a space where they could finally happen — held in luxury, in safety, in a language and cultural framework that requires no explanation. Energy Alchemy is not a wellness brand. It is a permission structure. A space where the performance can stop.

我在现代中国女性中,看到某种正在转变的东西——尤其是年轻一代,她们终于开始公开谈论长期压抑自己的情感代价。玉光炼心,是为这些对话而创造的空间。在奢华中,在安全中,在不需要任何解释的语言与文化框架中。

"Many women have learnt how to succeed, but not how to feel safe enough to soften."

"许多女性学会了如何成功,却不知道要怎样才够安全,才松得下来"。

Energy Alchemy · 玉光炼心

"Energy Alchemy was born from the belief that healing begins the moment we stop performing and start listening to ourselves again."

玉光炼心,始于一个相信:改变从我们不再扮演、重新听见自己的那一刻开始。